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Breaking Rules

What you will get:Breaking free of the “Rules”

 

Whether you like it or not…

 

Before you were even born, somebody had already mapped out a set of rules for your life.

 

For example…

 

The way you are supposed to dress.
The career you should aspire to.
The education you should get.
How you are supposed to behave.
The religious order you are supposed to follow.

 

And a whole bunch of other rules that, according to those who created them, will help you to be a respectable, accepted and happy human being.

 

Problem is…

 

Many people are not happy.

 

In a recent survey over 70% of Americans said they are not happy with their jobs.
Many countries have divorce rates around 50%.
Stress-related illness is on the increase and has been referred to as the “silent epidemic” of the civilised world.

 

And one reason is…

 

You were not designed to fit into the rules that were laid out for you.

 

The rules are just made by other humans in an attempt to control and govern.

 

How the hell do they know what is best for you?

 

Think about it…

 

How much of your life so far have you lived to “fit in” with the norms.

 

Those expectations that others and society place on you so you adhere to the rules.

 

And yet…

 

It doesn’t have to be that way.

 

Sure, it’s not easy to challenge the rules and create some new ones for yourself – but it can be done.

 

And it does involve more risk-taking.

 

So instead of your life being something like…

 

“Well this was a slow, steady and comfortable ride.”

 

It will be more like…

 

“Hell what a ride! The highs were amazing and when I fell, I fell. But each fall taught me something invaluable so when I got up, I jumped even higher than before!”

 

So, how do you start to make your own rules.

 

Well, first of all…

 

You’ve got to figure out what matters most to you.
You’ve got to dig deep and find out what makes your heart sing.
You’ve got to find something that is connected to your purpose and is in line with your personal values.

 

And you’ve got to grow your Self Belief to believe you can do it and you are worth it.

 

So when…

 

Those obstacles get in your way, you jump over them with grace and resilience.

 

And maybe even…

 

Smash right through them!

 

And suddenly, the old rules imposed on you don’t apply anymore.

 

You will wake up one day to find you have created your own rules.

 

Rules you want to follow.

 

I’m off to reject the expectations forced on me and create my own set of rules for my own life.

 

How about you?

 

To your fulfilment.

 

Steve

 

 

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A pioneering journey designed to help you create the rules that work for your life!

 

I am currently interviewing people to fill the remaining 9 places to join Class VIII starting in October 2017.

 

If you are serious about becoming an outstanding leader of yourself and others then book your chance to have a 1 to 1 talk with me now using tis link:
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Steve Neale
“Creator of the Limbic Performance System for Outstanding Leadership”

 

Psychologist, Executive Coach, EI Practitioner, Award Winning Trainer, International Author, Psychodynamic Therapist, Hypnotherapist, Mindfulness Instructor, International Speaker, Creator of the LPS, Creator of the Accredited Masters in High Performance Leadership
www.stevenealeinternational.com

To learn more please contact:
Steve Neale, steve@stevenealeinternational.com