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Self belief

What you will get: Clarity on what self belief is really about

 

“Do you believe in you?”

 

It will be your friend throughout life.
It will serve you in the good times.
It will serve you in the bad times.

 

In fact, I wish I could give this beautiful gift to everyone.

 

What am I talking about?

 

Self belief.

 

And what is inside this self belief gift box?

 

Well, there are 3 main ingredients to lasting self belief.

 

Self Worth
A sense of Unique Self
A task with Meaning.

 

So, let’s look briefly at each of these 3 precious elements.

 

Here’s my definition of Self Worth:

 

“True self worth is not about thinking you are perfect or better than others. It is about having a sense of comfort with who you are. It is about being humble. It is recognising with pride your strengths and being realistic about and at ease with your weaknesses. At a deeper subconscious level true self worth is an integrated belief and feeling of ‘I am ok because I am me. ”

 

And then there’s your Sense of Unique Self

 

You see there is no one else like you

 

Never was.
Never can be.
Never will be.

 

That’s because…

 

You are the only one on this planet with your combination of life experience, personality, personal values, beliefs, skills and abilities.

 

Nobody else. Just you.

 

And thirdly, because we are social animals, we need to link our self worth and sense of unique self to a Task with Meaning.

 

So the more you do something that you know and feel gives value and meaning to others, the more you will believe in yourself.

 

In sum…

 

Be comfortable with you – you are worth it!
Remember you are the only one of you and celebrate your uniqueness
Do things that give value and make a difference.

 

And then your self belief will take care of itself.

 

Are you ready to believe in you?

 

Your success partner

 

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Steve Neale
“Europe’s Leading Expert on Personal and Professional Growth”

 

Psychologist, Executive Coach, EI Practitioner, Award Winning Trainer, International Author, Psychodynamic Therapist, Hypnotherapist, Mindfulness Instructor, International Speaker, Creator of the LPS, Creator of the Accredited Masters in High Performance Leadership

To learn more please contact:
Steve Neale, steve@stevenealeinternational.com